Motherhood is always a journey filled with emotions, from intense joy and deep love to difficult, frustrating moments mixed with doubts. Am I “good” enough to be a mother?

Today, let’s listen to Mommy Trang Minh’s experiences with Lady Networking in the article below.

When it comes to motherhood, Trang is the group that proactively wants to have a baby and releases it to have a child. It is true that being a mother is an extremely important and challenging role for women. In the process of taking care of her children, Trang many times encountered doubts and concerns about herself.

Below are 3 things that Trang once doubted herself and how she overcame those doubts.

1/ Not good enough to be a mother

– What to eat to improve the quality of mother’s milk for the baby?

– Do I understand my child enough to help him develop better?

– What else do I need to learn to help my child develop comprehensively?

Many questions often appear in my mind during the first postpartum period. Facing big responsibilities, important decisions, and difficult situations makes me worry about my abilities.

To overcome this thought, Trang always has to repeat to herself: no one is perfect and no one can do everything perfectly right from the beginning. The most important thing is to focus on what you do well and always try to learn and improve yourself so that every day you can be a little better.

2/ Don’t know how to solve my child’s problem

In the early stages of just giving birth, I was extremely confused in situations such as: why did my baby cry while I had just finished feeding him, was it because the baby was not full enough or was there a problem with my breast milk or was it because the baby What else do you need?

When he grew up a little, after 6 months he started having his first illnesses, for example: diarrhea lasting more than 5 times a day. I also don’t know why he got like that while he was still young. If you eat and drink as usual, the milk is still breast milk and the mother does not eat anything strange that will affect the baby’s milk supply?

When her children encountered various problems, Trang in the early days often felt helpless and did not know how to help her children. This makes me doubt my ability to handle my child’s complicated situations.

To overcome this doubt, Trang needs to practice calmness to handle problems. I need to learn about the problems my child is facing, ask doctors or other mothers near me about their experiences when my child has other than normal symptoms so that I can help my child properly. effectively. Then each problem was solved and gradually I had more experience observing my child and promptly responding to his problems.

Not having enough time and energy to be a mother

– How much time is enough for your child?

– What is quality time with your child?

It’s clear that when it comes to motherhood, our women’s time changes completely. After having children, the pressure on how to allocate time appropriately while still maintaining good energy is a struggle. her troubles in the early postpartum period. When I gave birth during the epidemic, everyone stayed home with me, but I already felt a lot of pressure on myself, not to mention the normal hustle and bustle of society’s normal hustle and bustle of life for mothers giving birth.

To overcome this doubt, Trang needs to read about time management methods and find positive energy sources from adjusting her living hours and being clear about her own work tasks. I also express my feelings to the people around me, such as my mother, so that she can help me with other tasks such as housework or help me play with my children during times when I cannot arrange anything. Get your own work schedule.

Actually, there are many things I doubt myself about, but here are 3 things that I feel like it takes me quite a bit of time to become better every day. With what I have experienced, once I become a mother, I may encounter doubts and concerns about my abilities in taking care of my child. However, by focusing on the things you do well, exploring and learning, being patient with yourself, managing your time and finding positive energy, taking time for yourself, your role as a You can overcome doubts and become a great mother for your children.

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